Engagement gift ideas for gay couples

With Pride month approaching soon, what could be a better surprise for your gay boyfriend than tickets to a summer parade? Or, you could take him on a surprise trip to the most famous Schwules Museum in Berlin. He would be thrilled! Low-key, romantic dinner dates or couples spa getaways always do wonders.

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Personalized Cutting Board
Cotton Robes + Massages
Groom and Groom Cake Pops
Let's Toast Candle
Hubby Pillow Cases
Wifey Pillows Cases
20 Last-Minute Wedding Gifts They Didn't Know They Needed
Matching Couple Bracelets
Airbnb Gift Card
Personalized Silverware
Two Grooms Card
6 Months of Pantry Essentials Subscription
Missing Piece Bracelets
What is an appropriate engagement gift?
What to get a guy when he gets engaged?
What are the most popular engagement gifts?
Is it traditional to give an engagement gift?

First things first: When shopping for a wedding present for a couple, always start by looking at their wedding registry for gift ideas. These are the items you know they want and need since they picked them out themselves. However, if the items on the registry are already claimed, a sweet, personalized gift is a thoughtful alternative.

While the market is flooded with custom Mr. and Mrs. items, finding a bride and bride or groom and groom gift, or even a card, can be tough in big box stores. Luckily, there are lots of online shops offering custom-made gifts for gay and lesbian couples. We've rounded up some of our favorites, from matching pillowcases to first Christmas ornaments.

Personalized Cutting Board

From $40

Etsy | MilkandHoneyLuxuries

Kitchen accessories are a classic and appreciated gift. Outfit the newlyweds' kitchen with this practical cutting board with a special reminder of their big day. Available in two sizes, the board is crafted from luxe cherry wood for a gift that is as useful as it is decorative.

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Cotton Robes + Massages

$178 (Set of 2)

Pottery Barn

For the couple who loves to stay in, treat them to a matching set of soft, Turkish cotton robes. The spa-like wraps are lightweight, yet totally luxurious. If you're feeling extra generous, pair the luxe set with a gift certificate for a couple's massage to enjoy after the wedding stress is over.

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Groom and Groom Cake Pops

$59.95 (Set of 12)

Williams Sonoma

Weddings are a cause for celebration, and celebrations mean cake — cake pops, that is. Treat the happy pair to a delicious set of groom and groom cake pops made by NY Cake Pops. Truffle-style vanilla cake is rolled into spheres and dipped in decadent chocolate then hand-decorated with iced tuxedos and bow ties.

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Let's Toast Candle

$34 $27.2

Homesick

Homesick has lots of great candles for milestones and celebrations, from Mother's Day to birthdays. And the Let's Toast candle is perfect to send a couple to celebrate their nuptials, boasting notes of delicious mandarin, grapefruit, apple, pineapple and champagne grapes.

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Hubby Pillow Cases

$34 (Set of 2)

Etsy | WystarWeddingShop

Give the new couple a fun set of matching pillowcases to celebrate their union. Send to their honeymoon hotel ahead of time for a surprise when they walk into the room. We love this playful set from online maker WystarWeddingShop.

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Wifey Pillows Cases

From $27.05 (Set of 2)

Etsy | CreativePillowLV

And these wifey pillowcases from Etsy shop CreativePillowLV are so cute, too. Choose from multiple sizes in either percale or sateen cotton fabrics. They make great bridal shower gifts or engagement party presents.

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Matching Couple Bracelets

From $30.95 (Set of 2)

Etsy | riskybeads

These handmade leather wrap bracelets from online maker RiskyBeads are a great pre-wedding or shower gift. Choose from a plethora of colors in both leather and faux suede cords, as well as aluminum, bronze or copper bars for the set.

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Airbnb Gift Card

Prices Vary

Airbnb

Any travel-loving couple would appreciate a credit for an Airbnb rental of their choice. They can put it towards lodging on their honeymoon now or save it for a romantic weekend getaway in the future. Simply purchase a gift card for any amount between $25 and $500, and you'll be giving them something truly invaluable.

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Personalized Silverware

$29.50 (Set of 2)

Amazon

These personalized forks are perfect for a reception sweetheart table or the iconic first cake bite photo. And unlike other wedding decor and rentals, they make a great keepsake.

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Two Grooms Card

$6.99

Amazon

We love this two grooms card on Amazon. Pair the card with a gift card to the couple's favorite restaurant or go-to store. It's perfect for any wedding event, from the engagement announcement to the big day.

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6 Months of Pantry Essentials Subscription

$181.95

Williams Sonoma

Stock the lovely couple's pantry with a six-month subscription of cooking essentials from Williams Sonoma. Each month they'll receive one premium pantry essential delivered to their front door including award-winning extra-virgin olive oil, sea salt flakes, a library of Williams Sonoma's most popular spice rubs, restaurant-quality pasta and more.

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Missing Piece Bracelets

$19.50 $15.6

Etsy | JaneRJewelry

These "missing piece" bracelets from online maker JaneRJewelry are a great shower or bachelor/bachelorette party gift. The natural aquamarine beads and black agate beads remind the couple that their better half is always with them.

What is an appropriate engagement gift?

Gift cards, a check, or cash always make for a much-appreciated present. If you want a gift that underscores the celebratory aspect of getting engaged, pick out two or four champagne flutes. Or bring a bottle of Champagne or prosecco.

What to get a guy when he gets engaged?

20 engagement gifts for him.

A flower vase. Every couple needs a beautiful flower vase, and it is one of the most traditional and simple engagement gifts of all time. ... .

Old whiskey glasses. ... .

Wood wine rack. ... .

Sunglasses. ... .

5. Entertainment beverage tub. ... .

Couple ring box. ... .

Tie. ... .

Portable bar set..

What are the most popular engagement gifts?

20 best engagement gifts for every kind of couple in 2022.

'Wishes Love & Romance' Lead Crystal Champagne Flutes..

The Night Sky Custom Star Map..

ThePaintedPress Speckled Minimalist Ring Dish..

TheSpiritedLabels Personalized Engagement Wine Label..

TheHiddenGiftShop Personalized Bottle Stopper..

CTFT Cheese Board and Knife Set..

Is it traditional to give an engagement gift?

“Engagement gifts are not required or expected,” says etiquette expert Patricia Napier-Fitzpatrick, founder and president of the Etiquette School of New York. “But they're very common practice.